What do you do when all you want to do is Save the Marriage? T Dub, in this business, is a relationship expert. He got his training, not from college, but from experience. I was a Marriage and Family Counselor for several years and I have to agree with a lot of what he says. Going to a counselor can help, save the marriage, but it sometimes takes a long time. And by then, maybe it is to late.
So if you are in the situation where you had a fight. You threw him out. Or, you left her and went to stay with a buddy. Or, any of the other situations where you have done something you wished you could take back, listen to this guy. It might very well make a huge difference in your life to come. And, that would make a lot of difference in the rest of your life.
-Leaving the radio off because every song makes you cry
-Loss of appetite
-Binge eating for comfort
-Calling your ex several times a day
-Text messaging and emailing constantly (Text Message Terrorism)
-Constantly checking your email and voice mail to see if he/she called
-Not going out because you are afraid to miss a call
-Thinking non-stop about why they REALLY left you
-Feeling massively depressed
-Feeling urges to spy on them
-Endlessly rehearsing what you should have said
-Endlessly rehearsing what you will say if you bump into them
…and when you do get a hold of them, it usually turns ugly because without a clear plan of what you are supposed to do…what happens? P-A-N-I-C…defensiveness…arguments…and then it gets really nasty.
T Dub can help you. Watch and listen. Learn and put into practice. This is what you want to do to Save Your Marriage.